Preparing for your initial divorce consultation can be the moment it truly sinks in that this is real. Whether you have been planning for a while or have recently been served divorce papers, this appointment is an important first step in unraveling the years, often decades, of life you built with your spouse.
To better prepare you, the team at Shaffer Family Law has put together a general guide outlining what is typically helpful to have on hand before your consultation. While these items are commonly recommended, it is always best to confirm with your attorney which specific documents or information they would like you to bring based on your individual circumstances.
Key Steps to Prepare for Your First Divorce Consultation
- Your Goals and Needs: Before meeting with a divorce attorney, take time to reflect on your priorities and what you hope to achieve. While emotions can run high, having a clear understanding of your goals guides the conversation and ensures your attorney can focus on what matters most to you.
- Personal Information: A valid photo ID or driver’s license is required for identification purposes. It is also important to have your marriage certificate available, as it serves as official proof of your marriage and establishes the legal basis of your case.
- Child-Related Documents: If you and your spouse have children, bring any relevant records such as birth certificates, any existing parenting arrangements (formal or informal), and schedules related to their care. You should also be prepared to discuss details about their current living situation, daily care, healthcare, schooling, and any other information relevant to their well-being.
- Financial Documents: Gather and organize documents that give your legal team a clear understanding of your financial situation, including recent pay stubs, tax returns, bank statements, and retirement or investment account records.
- List of Assets and Debts: Property division is a key part of the divorce process, so it is important to outline both the assets you own and what you believe is fair to seek. In addition, debts are also considered, so you should list any outstanding financial obligations.
- Legal Documents and Court Orders: Have copies of any prenuptial or postnuptial agreements, along with relevant court documents such as protective orders, filed divorce petitions, or responses, if applicable.
- Prepare a List of Questions: For many people, the consultation is the first time they gain a clear understanding of how the divorce process works and what it may look like in their specific situation. Because of that, it is helpful to compile a list of any questions or concerns that come to mind so you can make the most of your time and get the clarity you need.
Schedule a Consultation with an Arizona Divorce Attorney at Shaffer Family Law
At Shaffer Family Law, our goal is to ensure you get real value from your initial consultation. While beginning the divorce process can feel overwhelming, coming prepared can make a significant difference in both your experience and the outcome of that first meeting. It helps you feel more confident and in control, while also giving you peace of mind knowing you have a knowledgeable team guiding you from start to finish.
Just as importantly, it allows our attorneys to quickly understand the key facts of your case, accurately assess your situation, and clearly outline the options and strategies that best align with your goals. If you’re ready to take the next step, contact Shaffer Family Law at (480) 470-3030 or request your appointment online.

